Is your Mum as good a sport as mine is – let me tell you a story and you’ll know what I mean!
When I was 18 I came over to the U.S. to go to college, and I obviously didn’t have my family around. As time grew closer to graduating, my Mum came over to stay with me for about a month – we took graduation pictures, hung out and had fun. During that time I didn’t have much money and I was living in a very small town that had few, if any, hair salons. I decided it would be a good idea to color my Mum’s hair for my graduation, to spice things up a little 😉 Let me preface this with the fact that I am in no way experienced and I had NEVER done anything with hair like this before (especially not on myself)!
We bought a color kit from the local supermarket, and I set to work coloring her hair. All was going well until I realized that I hadn’t tested an area to see how the color would take, and suffice it to say that by the time I was done my Mum’s hair wasn’t blonde but RED. Now all I can say is that she is much, much nicer than I am because she didn’t melt down, in fact her only response was “it’ll grow out.”
So when I called her this week and wanted to try a new product on her I was very surprised to hear that she was 100% OK with me doing it. It’s not because I have suddenly become a pro at hair styling, because I haven’t!
Thank goodness for AGEbeautiful Topcoat Toners which I just discovered…The thing is, just like my hair, my Mum’s pulls warm, brassy tones whenever she dyes it…and I noticed that there were some more brassy blonde tones in her hair and I wanted to “cool” them down for her.
I discovered this amazing new product at Sally Beauty and I have to admit I was cautious about using it on myself because I am not as patient as my mum is, and I’m pretty sure if it damaged my hair or it didn’t turn out right, I might have had a mini meltdown myself ;).
I am happy to report that these toners are the real deal. For those of you out there who have ever gone to a hair salon and come home feeling less than satisfied because your hair is too yellow, gold or brassy…this is the answer you have been waiting for.
It is really easy to use, it only takes up to 10 minutes, you can do it yourself and you can see the amazing results.
I know, it’s not exactly like me taking her to a spa, but how she felt when I was done was definitely worth it!
AGEbeautiful Topcoat Toners are anti-brass toners that neutralize unwanted warmth to keep blonde shades looking cool. They deposit rich color & shine on pre-lightened or highlighted blonde hair, and because they contain Vitamin E they moisturize your scalp rather than drying it out – We used the Pearl Blonde – for reference!
You can click the link above to shop one yourself online, or just visit any Sally Beauty near you – go to www.sallybeauty.com to find your nearest location.
Recently I had someone ask me if I have always wanted to write a blog…and it got me thinking. What I realized is that even though I started by blog only a few years ago, I have kind of always loved style, fashion, walking to the beat of my own drum as well aDon’t compare…empower, use your style & fashion for confidence, seek inspiration helping others reach their potential.
It has always given me great satisfaction to be able to be there, to help and empower my friends & family – so when I started working on Stylequeenie I kept this in mind. I think that in the world we live in there is so much negativity and that is perpetuated by social media and our perceptions of the lives that people lead based on what we see them doing on Instagram, Facebook etc. I have heard stories of people shaming or bullying on social media and it breaks my heart. I realize that it is easy because it can almost be hidden from the world…to shame another person really sets us back individually, and aren’t we here to grow?
There are times when I compare myself and what I do to others, but that is probably the most self-defeating thing that anyone can do. Comparison is the thief of joy – it robs us from feeling good about ourselves, who we are and what we are capable of!
The world is definitely big enough for everyone, but it’s up to us to carve our own niche! I know that there are people out there that know so much more than I do about blogging, empowerment, style and so on, but that’s OK with me…in fact I use it to my advantage. Have you ever heard the expression that “success leaves clues”? What that means is I can seek inspiration from others and use that to make me better. When I first started my career in sales I made it my goal to surround myself with successful, powerful sales people that I could learn things from. I took what they did and adapted it to create a style for myself…and because I know that technique worked for me in the past, that is what I do now with blogging and my social media.
I feel confident and happy in my own skin, I am learning to find more joy in my journey of life because I think it’s important to do so much more than just exist. I know there are varying degrees of motivation, confidence and determination, but think about this…what if someone out there needs what you have to offer? What if what you have is exactly what they need to save their life??
I believe in the philosophy of “pay it forward” for this very reason. I believe that we are all pieces in a puzzle and the only way that puzzle can be complete is if we all believe in ourselves and work on reaching our potential!
I always tie in style and fashion with my blog posts because I do believe that when you feel good about yourself, when you tell yourself that you like who you are and how you look, that is what is going to be seen by the outside world. I have always considered style to be a way to express your unique personality, and as such, something that EVERYONE should pay attention to. I realize that not everyone is as enamored by style and fashion as I am, and for some it seems harder…but just like I said about following the clues of those that are successful, you can do the same with style and fashion. Sometimes all you need to do is seek a little inspiration and adapt it to yourself! You can shop similar looks to those I am wearing in this post by clicking the links below!
I hope this Wednesday that you will realize how important & how beautiful you are – and that no matter whether anyone says otherwise, you are ENOUGH!!
I don’t know about where you are, but here in Utah the weather is now starting to get warmer and warmer so much so that I feel summer knocking on the door. The thing that I love the most about summer is that the evenings are longer, brighter, and I seem to have so much more energy and want to be outside more. My dog is happier because he gets walked more, and I take so much more pleasure in taking care of my yard and having a great space to be outside and enjoy the warmer nights!
I have also noticed that as the weather becomes warmer I also seem to be drawn more to bold, bright colors and patterns and stand out. I guess I feel like a flower…summer makes me feel like blooming (corny I know, but definitely true).
This past weekend my 2 younger boys and my husband went to stay in Midway (a small town in Utah), and the weather was a little dreary and cooler than it has been. I found myself starting to feel a little less energetic, so I decided to go and exercise and then we took the boys on a little shopping spree to the outlets and Nike (and this time it wasn’t about me 😉 ) Later that evening we took the boys to see the movie “I can only imagine”. If you haven’t seen the movie, you should really check it out. It has some sad parts (both my boys cried) but the message is amazing, especially because it’s a true story! What it did is totally reset my whole gratitude vibe…it made me appreciate the things that I have and all the things that my family does for me. And then with Mother’s Day yesterday I was truly spoiled…
Are you drawn to certain colors? What colors speak to you and do you wear them? When I ask a lot of people what their favorite color is I am always surprised to find that they very rarely wear clothes that are that color. Getting stuck in a rut of wearing the same colors over and over is very common, BUT, and here’s the best part…it’s easy to get UNSTUCK! The easiest way to start is to stick to a color that is one you already love, and add a top, scarf, shoes or if you are really reluctant, add some accessories in that color. I would bet that if you do this, you will more than likely find that you wish you would have done it sooner.
I am looking forward to wearing some fun, bright colors this summer…if you want to see some of my current top picks, you can click the links below…
Have you ever noticed how different you feel when you’re having a good hair day? I have always loved having hair long enough to be able to put it up and style it differently (even though sometimes I try to style it the same and it just doesn’t work out 😉 )
After the terrible “hair” incident I had last year when my flat iron was turned up too high and fried the front of my hair, so much so that I ended up cutting bangs which I immediately regretted and started to grow out…I have really started to pay more attention to caring for my hair. Especially now that my hair is longer, it requires more moisturizing, more protection and more care than ever before.
Have you ever done something to your hair that you immediately regretted or just wondered what you were thinking? About 10 years about I decided I’d had enough of longer hair and decided to cut my hair into a pixie cut…and then to color it platinum blonde. It was definitely a noticeable, stylish hair cut, and I was in love with it for about a year, but the bleaching burned my head a couple of times and I quickly started to become bored. It’s a good thing that my hair grows quickly because when you have a style like that it’s really hard to grow it out.
Now I try not to use a flat iron or curling iron too much and I use heat protectants to prevent another “incident” like last year. I love to pull my hair back and experiment with new styles of wearing my hair up. My favorite way to find these styles is of course Pinterest. The tutorials, the pictures and the ideas never disappoint.
In today’s post my hair is in a simple chignon and this is my “go to” style whenever I need to pull my hair back quickly. I know how to make it look great in a matter of minutes, and this is what I turn to on mornings when I don’t have as much time to get ready. Do you have a “go to” style for your hair?
I tend to post more about dressier outfits than casual, but this look is one that I pull out quite frequently for running errands, weekend casual dress, baseball games and so on…it’s comfortable, easy and still stylish. Don’t think that sweatpants and a T shirt can’t still be cute…the camo print and wide legged cut make these sweatpants really cute AND comfortable!
Do you have a favorite way to wear your sweat pants & T shirts? Comment below…I would love to hear.
You can shop some stylish sweatpants and T shirts by clicking the links below!
Do you ever have times when you are feeling run down or have very little energy?…You know, when you’re a mum, have a full time job, as well as write a blog the world doesn’t seem to turn just right if you can’t keep everything going. Not that I kid myself enough to think that I am the only one capable of doing everything (at least not anymore), but I guess I just have a hard time letting myself take time off things I know need to be done…
So, my question to you is…what gives you the energy you need to accomplish the things you need to do? Have you ever noticed that some days when you get home at night you feel more tired or have a distinct lack of energy? I notice that when I am focused on too many things at once, all it really does is sap my energy. With that being said, I want to talk about multi-tasking, and how it could actually be hurting you!
I have always worn my ability to multi-talk like a banner and shouted to the world that I could do so many things all at once, and I had it all handled. But over recent years (and it could be because I am becoming more mature – or at least older), I have noticed that I feel exhausted, overwhelmed and just down on myself for not being able to do all the many things that are on my list everyday. I used to beat myself up about not being as productive as I want to be (and again, these are the expectations that I put on myself), but I don’t do that anymore. I have learned that the best ways for me to accomplish the many things that I need to do are by making sure I follow these simple guidelines:
I have found that smiling is something I didn’t used to do too much, at least not when I was by myself…but I am working on implementing this into my life more. I look for things to smile about, I imagine people I love, traveling, and many more things and it’s funny, somehow that smile just seems to happen. If you haven’t already tried it…perhaps it could work for you too!
Of course, it’s much easier to smile when you feel good about how you look or what you’re wearing. Even people I know that aren’t into fashion or don’t care too much about the latest trends, still like to make sure they look good. Feeling good on the inside very often comes from what we perceive on the outside! Do you remember being a kid and getting a new pair of shoes, dress, or some article of clothing? How did you feel when you wore it? Did you think you were the “bees knees” – I know I did! The same is true as we are older, but I think we may not be in tune with it as much because there are so many other things going on in our lives…
Even sickness and lack of energy is no excuse to not have something to smile about 🙂
This Yellow top and denim skirt definitely made me smile, especially because Yellow is such a happy color anyway…you can shop some similar pieces below
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Have you ever noticed that when you wear certain fabrics you feel a little more sassy, funky, luxurious, sexy or feminine? During victorian times women wore a lot of lace, which was a great way for them to express their femininity. Nowadays, we have a lot more fabrics at our disposal, giving us more options which can sometimes be overwhelming or confusing to some!
I recently had a conversation with a friend about how when I wear leather I feel a little “cheekier” or more sassy, and that certainly comes across in the way I act. With all the fabrics out there how do you decide which ones will and won’t work for you or how to put them together with other fabrics to make a full outfit?
I don’t ever limit myself to some fabrics I like to have the option to be able to wear any if that’s how I feel I want to express myself on that day, but dressing the fabrics like I mentioned can be confusing or overwhelming.
In this post I am wearing a lovely velvet blazer – velvet is a fabric that feels very luxurious or even sophisticated. I paired mine with some jeans and some fun stiletto pumps, and the effect was that the jacket really dressed up the whole outfit.
I think the key about working with different fabrics is not being afraid to try them, or even to mix and match with other fabrics. For example, I try to make my fabrics compliment each other rather than trying to match them too closely. I have found that if I try to find different velvets and put them together it doesn’t really work because they are not quite the same and it looks like you are trying too hard. Other than wearing velvet with jeans like I did in this post, it’s a fabric that I think looks great with satin, lace, or even leather – all of which provide a contrasting sheen and feel.
With warmer weather either already here or just around the corner, there will not be the need for as many layers, but it does still give us an opportunity to mix fabrics, and one of my favorite things to do right now, mix patterns.
To shop some of my top fabric picks along with what I’m wearing in this post, just click the links below…
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